I have a flatmate who hates people bitching about her - when we started in Freshers Week her opening statement was 'I don't like people who don't say things to your face'. About a month ago she had a massive blazing argument with me because apparently I was bitching behind her back to people. Partly true as I was discussing her inability to be flexible with our new house for the next semester with my boyfriend - but with him only. I don't see that as bitching as I was stating facts and wasn't spreading anything around, right? Maybe wrong but he's my confidante and I tell him everything, so whatever.
Last night she decided to bitch to my BFs best friend about how he treats me. Apparently he's 'lazy, mean to (me), abusive, a complete twat'. He's none of these things. We have a laugh and mess around and have our own injokes which often focus on beating each other up - it's not serious, it's play fighting.
She's also the girl who has decided that my BF is no good for me and causes all the trouble in the post three entries under this one. Yep.
Isn't it funny how two faced people can be? Oh, and her relationship with her boyfriend is on the rocks... They fight constantly, she bosses him around and he follows her like a puppy... People in glass houses ;)
Sounds like you flatmate needs to be reminded that she is, in fact, a grown up and should act accordingly. I'd tell her to grow up and butt out!
ReplyDeleteYour relationship with your boy is your business and she should show a little respect. Sounds like she's jealous and very insecure. I feel dreadfully sorry for her.
Hope you're having a good evening, otherwise. <3. XXX.
Haha well I'm glad you seem to be in a good mood o.O She does sound.. messed up
ReplyDeleteSame CB. Two years or even 6 months ago this would have worried me and made me question it but tbh it's plainly obvious that she's jealous of what we have... We're strong enough to still be together after several bombshells and we see each once a week, if not once a fortnight where she can barely go a day with seeing her guy... Meh. She's 18 going on 8 - Sigh! Unfortunately she's also a very aggressive person and I know if I started a conversation with her about it, no matter how civil and assertive I was, she'd fly off and shout at me within minutes, so I'm just going to leave it.
ReplyDeleteThanks Vamp, I'm in a fairly good mood today! xx
Oh yeah, tonight her facebook status is 'Next year's going to be interesting...' and she blanked me when I was in the kitchen earlier. AWESOME! xx
ReplyDeleteYou are wise beyond your years, young Merla! X
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